A Hospital Experience
Sunday, March 7, 2010 at 11:40AM Don't Assume Your Loved One is in Good Hands
I apologize that so much time has gone by since my last post. My Mom, who is 79 years of age, just had a shoulder replacement. She fell on uneven pavement while in Virginia during Christmas holiday. When she was taken to the emergency room at Mary Washington Hospital, she had an x-ray and was told that she would not need any surgery. It would heal.
When she got back to Castle Rock where she lives, we took her to the doctor who did her hip replacement two years ago. We really like him and trust his opinion. He was out with his own surgery and healing whatever he had done on himself. So, the shoulder specialist in his office saw my Mom and said she needed surgery on that arm right away. He said her shoulder was broken in four places. Of course, he did many more x-rays than just one so that he could see the whole picture.
We felt like we wanted to get a 2nd opinion so a dear friend of the family recommended an orthopedic surgeon her son had used when he had a terrrible biking accident. We made an appointment and found out she did need surgery as soon as it was possible. Dr David Schneider did the surgery and we were very pleased with him.
Our family friend and I were in the hospital with her since she had the surgery and only left to go home to sleep. I had to leave once to take care of an emergency with my granddaughter being sick at school.
As you know, there are those who are great at their jobs in every profession. If someone were not there with my Mom, we really aren't sure how it would have turned out. She was in pain and had asked for pain meds every four hours as the doctor had told her to. The nurses also said it is easier to stay on top of the pain than to catch up.
Well, there were times when we had to chase down a nurse (her nurse) to remind her of how much time had elapsed since the request of the medication. We also had to remind the nurse to come back with ice as Mom was told to use the ice as much as possible over the incision.This seemed to be standard procedure for this particular nurse, everytime she was on duty.
This hospital is supposed to have the best standards in the US for an orthopedic ward. Can you imagine one that is average?
I just want to tell you not to assume that your loved ones will be taken care of if they are in the hospital. Overall, the treatment was good but as much as we want to believe they are all great at their jobs and love what they are doing, it isn't always the case.
We have found that because my Mom is so healthy as a 79-year old lady and not on a bunch of prescription meds, that she is not the "normal" person her age. They all want to make her into their profile of someone who just listens and does everything the doctor says, whether it is good for her or not.
This has been a trying time for me but I am thankful I was able to drop everything to be with her and see to her recovery. Our parents deserve the best we can do.
Dr Schneider,
Mom,
aging,
hospitals,
orthopedic,
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