Hope you have a happy Valentine's Day today.  What does Valentine's Day mean to you?
Do you feel the pressure that you should be with a lover?  Some of us have grown up with crazy ideas that we have to be in a special relationship to be someone or to be normal.

Valentine's Day (or any holiday) can be whatever you want it to be.  You can spend time alone, with family members, pets, friends or whatever you choose.  You are the creator of your life.  If you are alone and would rather not be, then you can change your thoughts to create a different scenario. 

First you will need to become aware of those thoughts on a daily basis.  What you think and what you believe is what creates your life.  Most people think they are not lovable (on a subconscious level) and for whatever reason, don't deserve the good.  Write down different subjects like men, women, life, health, etc and then put your thoughts under each subject.  Do you see any that may need to be worked on to be more positive?

Treat yourself with respect, be aware of how you are talking to yourself all the time.  Louise Hay says, "Look into the mirror, look into your eyes, say your name and tell yourself you love yourself.  By saying your name, it addresses the child inside we all have, that has been rejected for so long."